Weddings Around The World Canadian Chinese Wedding in a tranditional chinese family,a elder,usually the mom or someone who has both parents,husband or wife still alive and has at least one son and one daughter can give the bride a best wishes by using those tools showing in my picture. We called this ceremony 上頭 means comb hair for the bride. Why they use those tools because the name of those tools sounds lucky 子孫尺 柏葉